In DID, there is a separation between parts who contain different emotions, memories, abilities and different levels of awareness for body sensations. It is very common that parts represent polar opposites. One has barely any emotion, the other has way too much of it. One remembers trauma and the other doesn’t. And maybe one […]
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Unblending overlapping dissociative Parts
Blending is a temporary experience where dissociative barriers are not as strong as usual and the inner experience of one part overlaps with the awareness of another. It does not feel like an intrusion from a strange, different part. For a limited time, it becomes our own experience. Blending in itself is not problematic if […]
House of Healing: After-Care for Memory Processing with dissociative Parts
There are different ways to approach trauma processing with dissociative parts. All of them are exhausting and slightly incomplete. Our therapy sessions are long enough to work with the memory but they are never long enough to deal with all the feelings of hurt and injury, they can never cover a whole recuperation phase. What […]
Co-regulating stress responses of inner parts
Parts can have vastly different experiences at the same time. While we are calm and oriented, other parts might be highly dysregulated. Their dysregulated states can leak into our experience and make us feel uncomfortable and sometimes it can outright flood us so that we lose our own regulation. It is also unpleasant and unfair […]
Somatic Experiencing – Good for DID Treatment?
Somatic Experiencing is a body-focused trauma therapy that was developed by Peter Levine. It is based on the idea that trauma is not mainly a problem of memory or attachment. The theory is that survival energy that was mobilized during dangerous situations could not properly dissolve (usually because of limited ability to move the way […]
Halfway home – bridging the gap between worlds
When we work with our DID system, we can face situations where traumatized parts were cut off from the normal world. They have never been in contact with it and all they know is the world that the abusers created around them. Especially in organized abuse, the world that they know will have a limited […]
Rescripting with DID parts: Same Technique – different Missions
[Disclaimer: This article is based on personal experience with a bunch of different but similar rescripting techniques. For DID therapy, rescripting in IFS barely differs from rescripting with IRRT or similar techniques because all of them have to be adapted. Once they are adapted we can notice two different patterns for inner processes instead of just […]
Tipps & Tricks for Digital Conferences for Survivors
Digital options for networking and advocacy are becoming more important. It is a lot easier to invite a bunch of people from all over the country to a video conference than it is to bring them all together in one place. Add special interests or a niche topic and it starts to become impossible […]
Managers, Exiles and Firefighters in DID
Using IFS for DID therapy is a mixed bag. There is advanced training that does support DID therapy but many people with DID who are confronted with the basic training feel alienated and like something about it is off. It was not developed with dissociative barriers in mind. There is still a basic dynamic that […]
Epiphany #10: Paradox Lost
What is this? Some would insist it is a vase. Others would swear it is two faces. Neither of them is right. It is both a vase and two faces. It needs the existence of the vase to get two faces. It needs the faces to make a vase. Yet it is […]
Dealing with Intrusive Thoughts
Intrusive thoughts are thoughts that suddenly appear in our head and that we perceive as stressful and beyond our control. The content is often shameful or mean and there is a certain tone to them. Such thoughts can be very distressing, especially if they are never actually quiet. And thoughts are not as easy to […]
Avoiding the inner Tug of War
Once we are aware that we go through different stress responses and that parts feel most comfortable in states that match their action systems we can use that knowledge to examine inner dynamics that cause us trouble. We might be drifting apart in response to the external situation we are in. The result is a […]
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